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My Journey: From Curiosity to Coaching
My Journey:
From Curiosity to Coaching
Addiction
Counseling
Therapy
Addiction Counseling Therapy
Addiction and mental health are deeply interconnected, often influencing and worsening each other in what’s known as a dual diagnosis or co-occurring disorders. Understanding how addiction impacts mental health (and vice versa) is key to providing compassionate, effective care. addiction is often rooted in past events, particularly those involving trauma, guilt, shame, or unresolved emotional pain. It's not just a matter of willpower or choice; it's often a coping mechanism for deeper wounds.
How Addiction Relates to Past Events and Guilt
1. Addiction as a Response to Trauma
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People who experience trauma (especially in childhood) may turn to substances to numb emotional pain, escape memories, or feel in control.
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Examples: abuse, neglect, assault, loss of a loved one, or chronic instability.
“The drug helped me feel nothing—and that felt like relief.”
2. Guilt and Shame as Triggers
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Some people use substances to cope with guilt over something they did (or didn’t do).
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Others feel shame about who they are, often rooted in criticism, rejection, or internalized beliefs.
These feelings can create a cycle:
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Use substances to escape guilt → consequences cause more guilt → use again to cope.
3. Addiction and Self-Punishment
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Guilt can lead to self-sabotaging behavior.
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Some people unconsciously use drugs or alcohol as a way to punish themselves or confirm a belief like “I’m not worthy of healing.
Why This Matters in Recovery
Understanding the emotional roots of addiction is key to healing. It's not just about quitting the substance—it's about addressing what made the substance feel necessary in the first place.
Healing from addiction is a journey, not a one-time fix. It’s not just about stopping the substance or behavior—it’s about reclaiming your life, building emotional strength, and creating healthier ways to cope with stress, trauma, or pain.
YOU DESERVE
AN AMAZING LIFE & GREAT RELATIONSHIPS.
ANGER ISSUES CAN BE
OVERCOME WITH
THERAPY, GUIDANCE & COACHING.
Hi! I'm Lady SC from Singapore and I've helped hundreds of people in the past 20+ years to overcome anger issues.
Life Coach | Hypnotherapist | NLP Master Trainer & Practitioner
My Approach in Healing from Addiction
healing from addiction must begin in a space of no judgment. Judgment fuels shame, and shame is one of the biggest barriers to recovery. A nonjudgmental approach creates the safety and self-compassion needed to truly heal.
1. Understand the Root Causes in the subconscious mind
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Addiction is often linked to unprocessed trauma, anxiety, depression, or emotional pain.
2. Create a Safe Environment
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Set boundaries with people who enable or minimize your addiction.
3. Forgive Yourself and Learn from Relapses
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Relapse is a common part of recovery—not a failure.
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Each setback is a chance to learn, strengthen your healing, and recommit with more insight.
4. Focus on Long-Term Growth
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Healing from addiction also means building a life that feels meaningful without needing to escape.
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This could include:
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Career goals
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Creative passions
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Healthy relationships
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Volunteering or helping others in recovery
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5. Celebrate Progress
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Recovery takes strength. Every sober day, every boundary set, every time you reach out for help—it all matters.
6. Stay Connected
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Healing is sustained through connection—with others, with yourself, and with purpose.
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Consider therapy, peer groups, and community as ongoing supports—not temporary fixes.
You do not need to feel bad or embarrassed about your addiction and behaviour patterns. It is time to seek the right help to boost confidence and live a peaceful life again. We combine the power of hypnotherapy and talk therapy to discover the underlying triggers and find a way to regain your control and happiness.
You are not weak because you struggle. You are strong because you’re choosing to heal.
If you’d like, I can help you create a personal recovery plan.
Let’s walk this path together—with gentleness, respect, and deep care.
📅 Book a free 30- 45 minute consultation over Zoom.
Let’s talk about where you are now and how I can support you.
Clients Reviews
Darth One
Getting to know Sc is a priceless fortune in itself, Sc is very gifted and trained in a variety of aspects, she is a talented therapist and a very powerful intuitive empath among other things, she has such a way to connect and relate to a person beyond anyone i've came across. She possess a well of knowledge and wisdom.
Sc has led me to a deeper understanding about self acceptance, spirituality and being human. Through her work, I have learnt to much release myself of my past emotional/spiritual bindings and a whole lot more.
Be willing and trusting of the process with Sc, embrace the experience. She is a remarkable individual, thank you Sc!!🙏 You're an inspiring liberating force.
Appreciate your service. Blessings to you ! ⭐🌟⭐
Karen Lim
Lady SC Thank you, thank you, thank you!
You have healed me in a very profound way with immediate positive shifts thus allowing for unprecedented changes in my life. Most importantly, I am now more connected with God than ever before, connected stronger with my family allowing for free flow of conversation and happiness to permeate through our home, friends connection are more gentle and clarity in with my career/ business which has steered me to have found my life purpose and started to pursue my new field since a year ago. Now, life is responding with more ease, so grateful & blessed in every way for you have assisted me to arrive to this state. Life is indeed amazing, I have learnt to live for myself!
Hopefully I could begin on a new intimate relationship with more loving-kindness in our life.
Very grateful,
Deana Lye
Over the course of the sessions with SC, she has shown me the ropes of how to take care of my own mental and spiritual health, and I must say it has transformed my way of life and how I perceive events and the people around me. I am able to self soothe and gather my thoughts to gain clarity in handling difficult situations. And most importantly, I have learnt the importance of self love. With her help, I have discovered my own happiness and inner peace. If you feel lost or hopeless emotionally and mentally, I highly recommend seeking SC’s guidance, and you will discover the magic in her sessions. Thank you SC!
Mary Liew
Anyone who has an issue with letting go or coming to terms with past or present issues should have coaching and/or training sessions with SC. During the sessions...one will be surprised at how suppressed emotions come to the fore..and usually with an intensity that you will least expect. But the good thing is...it is usually necessary to undergo that for us to grow to the next phase of our life by forgoing whatever that no longer works for us and to confront our demons once and for all...so to speak. So yeah....anyone who is in need of a royal flush of anything that is negative in their life or who is desperately in need of offloading excess baggage or unnecessary perceived burden, a session with SC will be very illuminating.